The Heroine had a minor change of plans over the weekend which left her ill-prepared because plans and backup plans changed and then further car issues happened. I was rescued not once but twice.
Our Heroine is used to just being on her own for things like the SCA. Although she is working on visiting people and interacting with more people and letting them in. that is challenging.
We shall begin at the beginning with this story. With the classes and such then go into the drama of feeling unprepared as 4 things changed when the heroine was only double deep prepared to handle 2 failings, not 4 (also thought the Firey Scribe was my backup because I forgot a sleep shirt)
Classes went well, with the beginning cordial class our Heroine taught. She not only enjoyed teaching it she felt she was able to help folks who had made cordials before learning more about making different types of Could be said that it felt like it went more than well even. This pleased our Heroine to no end.
There were so many cool classes that the Sakanjabin class. with how to make lemon-lime no sugar added electrolyte syrup was less well attended however our Heroine walked her wagon around handing out Sakanjabin syrup to folks to take home (to not have too much syrup in the fridge again.
Thursday Our Heroine, had a suspicion that Her friend & roommate, The Side Witch, was not going to be up to a Saturday event, and while at Breakfast Friday morning with the Great Wizzard of Aim stated as much. She seemed a bit turned around in sleep times and this would be hard to overcome.
Our Heroine felt bad that she would not be joined but also truth be told the Heroine had planned her food and money based on driving up and back the same day and also sharing gas funds. This is not a normal thing for our Heroine who is in the habit of not counting on anyone because, well this happens. The Heroine has spent her whole life needing to hustle and count on herself or plan accordingly. However, there was a second set of plans as backup that involved staying at a friend's house. however despite that choice being still open our Heroine could tell that her dear friend the Firey Scribe was overwrought with health issues which meant she needed the rest or at least not another person in their way.
Further, our heroine knew she had further challenges the Sat and almost drove Their butt home and begged a ride back because of said issues.
As such there was just our Heroine trying to figure out going and coming from an event and trying to spend a little time chatting with friends.
She sat down with her Ex the Bard and apologized because this was not planned and it meant more money spent than anticipated.
Side note; Our Heroine has decided to work on not being bitter and being kinder to her Ex as it is all or nothing in this separation and our Heroine, does appreciate that He has not fought over the things that mean so much to our Heroine (making sure the adult children have a chance to take over/buy the house.) Since changing tactics and also finding her words to stop our Bard from dismissing our Heroine on issues they have, they have been able to function as strangers living in the same house with common interests of survival till they can move on.
The Bard looked up and booked a hotel for our Heroine close to the event site meaning that she could drive up Friday and wake up there. and so the Heroine planned as much but then planned to stay at the Firery Scribes the next night. or drive home in the dark. and then it happened.
Friday night while driving about a half hour away from the hotel she noticed that she had no headlights. these are not easy to change. Our heroine takes her car to someone to do them now because they are tricky. well, fudge but she thinks that is ok because she will spend Saturday night at the Firey Scribe's house and drive home Sunday in the daylight.
Second (or 3rd depending on how you count it) unexpected event happened. The Firey Scribe was not well. she was still more than willing to put the Heroine up. however, the heroine almost made her go to the ER so let's just say that the Firey scribe needed rest not the feeling of entertaining company.
This was when the 2nd resue came in. little background,
Earlier that Sat during a conversation with The Gennie and Norseman, The Norseman mentioned room for crashing. Our Heroine will confess she didn't think it was aimed at her I thought it was aimed at the Gennie. (now I continue our regular schedule story.
After helping a sewing machine transfer and fabric between the Firery Scribe and Miss Sandy. then making sure the Firery Scribe attempted to eat something then seeing her off. I had not decided what to do about getting home in the dark and the sun was fading fast. the Norseman asked The Gennie and I plans and I confessed to my lack of them. to wit, I was told to complete my well GPS entry and also to park on the side of the house, and to head out now.
As such I quickly went in and said good buys, hopped in my truck, and raced to get there because the light ran out (I didn't quite make that goal but didn't get in trouble or blind too many people with high beams either.)
Surprises at the home front. When the Heroine got home Sunday to a new laptop seems The Bard was quite tired of the Heroine's computer not updating. It was an early Birthday gift. Much needed as the computer had lived a good and long life it was from around 2017 (the last eclipse)
It boots up in less than 15 seconds. the old one took enough time to brew a pot of coffee.
Getting a new computer while the old one is working means that our Heroine can transfer data at leisure not cry over lost data.
Further Our Heroine might have a new job that requires this new computer. Squee.